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Tuesday, August 31, 2010

男人比女人现实


何谓男人比较现实呢??
这只是小女的想法,见笑见笑。。
男人们,得罪得罪!!



在网络上,
照片好看的,性感的就加
不好看的看都不看一眼
有名的就加一加
说是自己认识的美眉

在线上,
愿意和他谈黄色话题的
就缠着你不放
要求越来越大胆
甚至要求裸体视讯

在街上,
总是往那些性感美眉身上看
当女朋友透明似的
女朋友穿性感一点时就把她骂得狗血淋头
说是什么疼你不希望有人往你身上看
没想过当初追她时她也是性感的
还不是色吗??

做朋友的,
美的,性感的就说她很美,很甜,很可爱
什么好话都说尽了
为了讨她欢欣
无论她说什么,做什么,喜欢什么
都说她很好,很喜欢这样的女生
为了得到她的人和她的心
平平的她,就受尽侮辱
每天成为大家开口的笑话话题
从不把她放在眼里

喜欢她时,
住的再远都愿意载她
要什么都愿意买给她
想吃什么都愿意陪她
就算自己多不爱吃
她说什么都听她的
她发脾气会说她可爱
再忙都愿意腾出时间陪她
每天通电话,传信息
每天想腻在一起
带着美丽的她向兄弟们炫耀

追求她时,
会加把劲使力追她
把自己表现得毫无缺点似的
追得到时就到处炫耀
追不到时就说她的坏话
要不到她的人就说她卖清高
说她的不是
甚至放话说她其实生活一片乱糟糟
得到他想要的后
他不爱的就抛在脑后
电话再也不通
也会到处说她的不是

在一起后,
五分钟的距离也都说远
要她搭公车说希望她有独立的一面
他不想吃的就会说怎么都在吃这个
要他偶尔一通电话,一封信息
就说他有多忙多忙
说你很管他害他没自由
跟兄弟聚会说有她在很不方便
她发脾气时就说她很多要求

结婚以后,
为他身材走样,照顾家里点点滴滴
就说她是黄脸婆从不带她上街
却没有想过自己的大肚南,自己的秃头
她却很希望跟他牵手保持当初的甜蜜
每天晚上跟兄弟喝酒很迟回家
身边都是女人在打转
却说工作很忙很多应酬
她发脾气就说她女性荷尔蒙作怪
人老了很唠叨
她打扮很美跟姐妹聚会就说她有外遇
自己有外遇就说她忽略他
好像都是女人的错

她爱名牌包包,
说她贪污虚荣却没有想过她要为他保留面子
忘了他爱名车是为了让自己有面子到处留情

爱上了,无所不能
不爱了,一文不值
男人啊!他们并不知道自己其实比女人来的更现实
欢迎补充补充,小女暂时只想到这么多

Thursday, August 26, 2010

i'm lost

most of the time
we will not get things that we ask for
instead it happen to be the other way round
so i choose to be natural
never ask for anything for my life
i just wanna be simple
do things that i want
because it has been so tire to fight
fight for achievement
fight for being important
fight for a better life
isn't it so tiring in life??
that's too much to ask for
since i have stop my desires in life
stop my hopes or expectations
but it still never go as smooth as i wanted
problems still turn up
disappointment still appears
what is left in life??
leaving the place which made you down
doesn't mean that the past is gone
we tend to think of it still
this is how memories drop by to say hi
the sadness, the happiness that you will never forget
what do you think
when people telling you that you are good to be alone
am i needed to be alone all the while til the end of life
what's the meaning of being here then??
i got no answer
although there is no big deal which cause me to death
but what's the point for me without any thoughts in life
what do i want??
i don't know anymore
all i have is just living day by day
without an aim
without any hopes
living like a loser
because i got nothing to ask for
i don't even know what im looking for anymore
im totally lost,....so lost
cause i really think im just living my life for others
i just want to pay back what is given to me
i just want to take care of people around me
i ain't mighty
i ain't sacrisfiying
im just doing my part
im just doing my best in my life

Monday, August 23, 2010

what if??

what if your best friend betray you??
i don't know who else to trust anymore in the world
proven do not trust anyone in the world other than family
everyone can be so evil
everyone can be so selfish
when it comes to their own benefits maybe??
i don't even know what's the value to betray me
maybe just because that we always being treated like a fool
without knowing how others act behind you
there are people who wear a mask everyday
what if there is someone like this next to you
and they are actually someone you trusted most??
i had experience some bad one before
i wish it will not gonna happen anymore
i think our own are the only person
who can avoid these things to happen
i made my decision earlier
and i believe it is a good one
i'm not gonna change my mind
without listening to any gossip
but my own believe
i wish i could prevent any disaster to be happened
i should have treat myself better from now on

Friday, August 20, 2010

20歲後的女人

1.当你过了二十岁的生日以后,请记得学会化妆。这里所谓的化妆并不是要你化的多么浓妆艳抹。是要给自己与他人一个好的精神状态。二十岁以前不化妆叫清纯,可爱。二十岁以后化妆是对别人的尊重,二十二岁以后化妆是对自己的尊重。我想,如果一个连自己面部都打理不好的女人,如何能让别人对自己产生好感呢?

2.任何情况下,请让自己的情绪尽量处于平和的状态。哪怕一件事情让你很抓狂,但你需要平静的分析,做出最好的应对措施。没有任何人能够容忍一个暴戾的,不能控制自己脾气女人。
3.不要在人多或者有陌生人的地方说脏话。一个女人,出口成脏,并不会显得豪放,只会让别人觉得你没有教养。如果出口成脏,你的朋友与男友是羞于带你出门的。

4.不要像个泼妇一样在大街上与人争吵。试问,如果你在街上看到一个衣着光鲜,明眸皓齿的女子与别人在大街上指着别人的鼻子与人争吵,你会是什么感觉?

5.学会尊重。有的女性看到酒店的服务员,陪酒的小姐,出卖肉体的女孩会嘲笑并厌恶别人,觉得自己比她们高人一等。但是,请你想想,无论她们出卖任何东西,她们都是凭自己的努力去赚钱。可能她们出卖青春,出卖身体,但有一点你要相信,她们的钱是通过自己挣来的。她们没有偷,没有抢。

6.学会宽容。原谅那些伤害过你的人,是他们的伤害让你成长成熟。仇恨是一把双刃剑,刺伤别人,也会伤到自己。真正的报复是漠视和原谅伤害你的人,你的漠视与原谅会让他们觉得自己很渺小。

7.相信地久天长的爱情是存在的。或许你经历了男友的背叛,但请你相信,背叛你的人曾经也真诚的爱过,但他爱的那个人可能不是你。所以,请始终对爱情抱着积极的态度,这样容易得到幸福。

8.不要轻易抽男人耳光。除非他真的是卑鄙无耻下流。男人最在乎的是面子,你可以打的他满地找牙,但不要轻易打他的脸。打他的脸跟说他性功能不行有一样的效果。

9.我认为,一个女人一生最宝贵的财富不是拥有多大的权力,多高的地位,多少的金钱,而是在时间与经历的历练下,磨炼出良好的修养与气度。

10.学会做饭。我想这一点很多女孩会不屑,现在还要做饭吗?去外面多方便。但请你相信我,没有一个男人愿意找一个连面条都不会煮的女孩。即使偶尔犒赏自己,也应该跟妈妈学几道家常菜。

11.记得妈妈与爸爸的生日,还有自己的。在这三个日子里,请你回家陪伴他们,给他们做一餐饭,陪他们聊聊天。因为是他们把你带到这个世界上。尤其是你的生日,那是妈妈的受难日。

12.坚持有一份自己的工作。无论你的家庭与男友,老公多富有,但还是要工作。首先,你不会与这个社会发展脱轨,其次也会有一个自己的朋友圈,更重要的是,当你与提供你物质生活的人分开后,你还能够养活自己。

13.要有一个信念。这点很重要,信念是伴随一生的,有了一个信念,你便有了一个生活的目标。

14.对感情要认真,对爱情要忠贞。我们难免会被别人追求,当别人追求你,而你并不想与之交往的时候,请你明确的告诉他。不要玩暧昧,暧昧会伤害一颗有爱的心。对待爱情,要忠贞,相爱的时日里,请忠于对方,不爱的时候要果断的提出来,这样会省去很多不必要的纠缠与伤害。

15.忍让并尊敬你丈夫的母亲。如果你结婚了,与婆婆的关系处理的不好,请你尽量的忍让。并且不要对爱人数落他母亲的不对。你要知道,是你的婆婆把你的爱人带到这个世界上,是这个女人耗尽了青春与心力抚养教育了你的爱人。你一纸婚书就让这个男人跟随了你,请你想想那个生他养他的女人的感受。

16.学会保护自己。在自己随身携带的包里放一只安全套。这个社会每天都有女性受到性侵害,如果你不幸遇到了这样的事,又没有办法求救,那么,安全套会让罪犯对你的伤害减少,至少不会意外怀孕或者得传染病。

17.尽量少喝酒,少抽烟。现在女人喝酒抽烟不是什么大事,但对自己的身体健康不好,尤其是对以后的宝宝不好。如果你准备要宝宝,请提前一年戒烟戒酒。

18.控制眼泪。女人是水做的,所以眼泪就成了女人的专利。但我想说,不要让你的眼泪泛滥,尤其是在工作上,会让上司与同事认为你太脆弱,不能委以重任。其次,太多的眼泪招人烦。记住,眼泪解决不了任何问题。

19.每天让自己有一段时间阅读。无论是报纸,杂志,新闻,小说,请每天至少有半个小时去做。这样可以提升自己的学识。没有人喜欢一个金玉其外,败絮其中,胸无点墨的女人。

20.做个聪明的女人。聪明不是说让你算计谁,而是能够看清别人的阴谋,而你可以不动声色的化解危机。包括爱人的出轨,同事的算计。

21.学会微笑。我们会有很多烦心的事情缠绕,但,请在出门后保持优雅的微笑,你的微笑会让更多的人快乐,也会淡化你的烦恼。更重要的是,隐藏了自己的弱点,让对你心有不轨的人没有偷袭你的机会。

22.信守承诺。当你答应别人一件事情后,请尽自己的能力做好。如果你没有能力做到,那就不要轻易许诺,否则,别人会越来越不信任你。

23.坚持自己的原则。当别人触到你忍耐的底线的时候,请你大声的说"不"。一个有原则的女人不会让别人觉得不近人情,反而会让别人佩服。

24.克制自己的欲望。包括寂寞时身体的欲望。人的欲望是可怕的,你不加以克制会让自己陷的更深。尤其是情欲,放纵自己的情欲会让别人觉得你滥情并且会骂你是烂货。

25.学会珍惜和感恩。一个懂得珍惜的女人必定是个快乐的人,珍惜每一份情谊,爱情,友情,亲情,这样,内心会是温暖的。懂得感恩的女人是善良的,能够记住对自己有恩,帮助自己的人,会用更多的爱去爱和保护身边的人。

26.学会放手。当你爱的人不爱你了,请放手,并祝他幸福。不要寻死觅活的纠缠,这样只会加深他对你的绝情。更丢失了一个女人的自尊。优雅的离去,会让他在多年以后怀念你们曾经的美好时光。

27.保持自我。女人一但恋爱,就把自己丢失了,为了他改变自己。孰不知,他爱的就是初遇你的样子。一些不好的习惯可以改,但不能盲目的把以前的自己全盘否定。

28.认识自己的错误,然后诚恳道歉。无论是与朋友,家人,爱人相处,如果你错了,请道歉。不要让别人牵就你,一句对不起会让别人觉得你更懂事。

29.选择一个爱好。这个爱好必须是健康的,它可以在你闲暇时,无聊时,郁闷时为你排解情绪,也会让别人觉得你有一个特殊的才艺。

30.自尊,自爱,自强。老调重谈,也是最最重要的。做到这三点,说实话,很难。因为女人可能因为感情而将这三点抛下,或者将其中的一些抛下。但这三点,对于一个女人来说,是社会与他人对自己肯定的决定性筹码。没有这三点,女人将是随波的浮萍,男人的玩物,别人嘲笑的对象。所以,请所有女孩,女子,女人牢记,一定要自尊,自爱,自强。

一直让自己做一个尽量不让别人讨厌的人。我们不可能让所有人都喜欢我们,但我们尽量不让别人讨厌。能做到不让别人讨厌,已经是一件很不容易的事了。所以,所有的女孩,女子,女人,让我们一起加油吧。

dating buddy

is another day out with Jeraldine
as per normal
where the rest can't make it
meeting at Vivocity
was thinking what to have for lunch
Jera was saying that the dessert at Bakerzia is good
so we just went to check out the menu
and decide to dine in

assam prawn linguini

Aglio Alio

our dessert
it was a cheesecake in the menu
but there is no cheesecake at all
or it was a cheesecake melted in ice cream??

 
saw the fountain
could be a nice scene to take picture of
went out just to take a few snaps


went jalan-jalan after makan
check out the cargo which Jera wanted to get
for sure im checking as well
which im getting one soon
find a place sat down to chit chat
at the roof top with nice view
that's what girls always do
chit chatting and sharing
sharing our "secrets"
thanks for listening babe
hope you will get over it
and wish us all the best
hope to see you for mooncake festival =)

Monday, August 16, 2010

放手

很多时候
不属于你的
再怎么紧紧抓住
它终究不会属于你
曾经为了一段短短的恋情
花费了四年的时间把它放开
曾经也因为原本的有机会
而觉得失望
这次也是自己的单纯想念
没有勇气告诉你
然而失去你的联系
一切即使未能开此
就足以让自己失去信心
够了,一切都够了
真的不想一次又一次的失望
失望再演变成绝望
真的那么一点希望都不存在吗??
也许我是对的
爱情,不存在也不属于我的世界
不是说好不会再放任何希望吗??
我错了。。我做不到
以后也许不会再有任何希望了
我该担心的再不会是。。爱情
因为它不属于我

只要放弃了希望
就不会再有失望
没有了绝望
就再不会有伤痛

Hebe首张个人专辑新歌预告






















一个女孩爱唱歌 一个关于爱的歌
听谁在唱歌
by Hebe
it's been seeing Ella participate in drama
Selina took over the host for The Guess Show
finally to get some news about Hebe
her new single album gonna be release soon
can't wait for her new songs
hope that she is doing well after all

Saturday, August 14, 2010

plan for future

i was chatting with my bestties -- Ivana
we were talking about our plan for future
we all have a dream
aren't we??
i don't have any dream
but i have a plan what i wanna do next
she told me about her plan as well
we all do worries
we afraid that we can't do it
we afraid that we say it today
yet still we do nothing about it
or it will not be successful
something just came across to my mind
if we have a plan
if we know what we want
if we know what to do
we have to learn for it
we have to work hard for it
we must believe that we can do it
if there is no believe in ownself
we can't do it
let's we all work hard together
go for our future
believe there is always brighter in front of us
we gonna success one day in future
never give up!!

Friday, August 13, 2010

默默的想念

默默的等待
默默的想念
这感觉不好受
等待你的回应
等待与你相约
期待很难受
最难过的是你不知情
不是不想让你知道
只是我害怕
知道了以后
我们什么都不是
这不可怕
最可怕的是
将会失去一切
即使是最简单的
这比期待,想念
还要来得痛苦

一个人生活

在这么先进的世界里
再没有什么男女之别
现在的女性甚至可以比男性来得强
甚至还要独立
原本就很男孩性格的我
在朋友的眼里总是一个很坚强
很独立,天不怕,地不怕的女生
事实是这样吗??
曾经以为我什么都不怕
以为自己很坚强
但原来我什么都不是
原来我也害怕孤单
自从我离乡背井到一个完全陌生的环境时
原本很坚强的我反而变得更依赖人了
发现我不能没有朋友在身边
没有他们的陪伴,日子很寂寞
总是一个人吃饭
总是一个人逛街
虽然当中可以享受那一个人的自由
时间久了
反而觉得有那么一点的无趣了
没有人陪你谈心
没有人第一时间得知你的快乐与难过
没有秘密的我自然也好像比较封闭了
虽然还是很乐意与人分享我的故事
但他们应该不懂吧
毕竟可以相处的时间很短
真正想要找到一个知心朋友不容易
甚至朋友也得花好多时间
带着那厚脸皮
才有那小猫两只吧!!
是的,好的朋友不需要很多
但毕竟我们能见面的机会真的很难
又更何况是要找一个懂我的人呢??
本来就没什么信心的我
更没有办法建立起信心来了
每当我来到朋友面前总是忙着诉苦
不喜欢更不愿意让任何人担心的我
反而在他们面前,我是脆弱的
烦恼更是一箩一箩的多
但是每当我一个人的时候还要轻松
就连我自己也搞不清楚这到底是为什么
是因为累了吗??
因为自己一个人承担一切而累了吗??
也许一个人生活真的很累,很寂寞
很懊恼这样的自己
真的很不愿意在他们面前表现得如此脆弱
更不愿意任何人替我担心
因为我想要的是身边的人都过得比我开心
这也许就是我的使命吧!!
宁愿牺牲也不愿看见他人的痛苦
因为我一直都把身边所有的人
排在我心里的最前方
就算自己受了委屈
在背后自己一个人忍受难过
也不愿意解释
以为我相信只要愿意付出
还是可以得到认可
相信有那么一天他们还是会懂我的
就算不懂
至少我没有做任何伤害别人的事就好了
因为我知道他们对我的付出
还是有的
至少我不开心发牢骚
他们会静静的陪在我的身边
任由我发我的脾气
就算是他们的耳膜即将被我割破似的
这一切已很足以满足我了
因为我不再执著我会是谁的谁
也因为我懂了
没了我,他们有他们的生活
没了他们,我也得生活
我们有各自的路要走
如果今天能够走在一起就很好了
虽然不懂我们大家还能一起走多长远的路
至少我们曾经一起走过
我们曾经一起努力奋斗过
我也不想再把任何人放在我的前方
努力告诉自己
时间,可以把我改变
让我学习如何看得自己还要重要
努力为自己而活
也许更有意义吧!!
也因为我相信那一个把我排在前方的人会出现


Wednesday, August 11, 2010

what is this?!?



its been a month
having this strange feeling in my heart
have i fallen in you
there is no answer to be given by anyone
not even by myself
which i have no confidence in this anymore
no hope no expectation
because i get enough disappointment
because i get enough hurts
its just a week the moment we have spent
which i know it could be easy to fall
it is difficult to let go
i'm not sure about this feeling
but i know it clearly that i'm missing you
and i know it clearly this is not as deep as in love
just feeling like a fool
where i'm so use to stare at the blank screen of my phone
either the wallpaper of my computer
waiting for you news
a feeling which i'm trying to hold it back
which i will not have any expectations nor hopes
this is good enough as it started smooth
as long i get to hear from you
as long i get to see you
i know nothing better about you
neither you know anything about me
this is just a start
which we wouldn't know what's fated on us
i will like to give it a try if it is given to me
i just wish everything goes as normal it could be
as smooth as i wish
as natural as it is given to us
what i could do at this point
just wish to hear from you as often as we do
to see you as normal as meeting a friend
let's God draw us the way we could go
always believe the way which given to us is the brightest way
there is always a reason whichever way that's given to us

Saturday, August 07, 2010

'Toy Story 3' Trailer HD



i believe everyone has watch this
i said i wanna watch this when this show release
and my friend asking me:
"are you still a kid??"
i was like silent
because i always believe that Disney cartoons are good to watch
and it is actually suitable for all groups
luckily i met this girl during my training
so we went to watch the show
the ending touches my heart
and i cried,....yes,....i know im crazy....lol
you know it's like you never know someone will love his toys so much
even until the day he needs to leave them
how i wish i could meet someone like this
i believe a guy like him will be someone very sincere
haha,....i think we all looking for someone like this right??
anyway,...there are lots more movies waiting for me....
Inception,...Salt,....lots more coming,....
i wish i will be able to catch it all....
which im so outdated nowadays...sigh...

sharing the memories of ROSE

was reading an email send by a friend
it touches my heart
which is not a touching love story
nor any touching stories
but the words that being told
which taught us in life and make us grow
let me share with you guys

" There are only four secrets to staying young, being happy, and achieving success. You have to laugh and find humor every day. You've got to have a dream. When you lose your dreams, you die. "

" We have so many people walking around who are dead and don't even know it! "

" There is a huge difference between growing older and growing up. "

" If you are nineteen years old and lie in bed for one full year and don't do one productive thing, you will turn twenty years old. If I am eighty-seven years old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything I will turn eighty-eight. " 

" Anybody! Can grow older. That doesn't take any talent or ability. The idea is to grow up by always finding opportunity in change. Have no regrets. "
 
" The elderly usually don't have regrets for what we did, but rather for things we did not do. The only people who fear death are those with regrets.... "

REMEMBER, GROWING OLDER IS MANDATORY. GROWING UP IS OPTIONAL. We make a Living by what we get. We make a Life by what we give.

Tuesday, August 03, 2010

to town

suppose to sing k today
but my buddy having bad headache
so decided just to meet up for lunch
so that she could get well soon
but anyway it was a sudden plan for the meet today
so as long the plan still onz on the 12th
it would be fine for me,...hehe
realise that i have not been to town for so long
can't even remember when was my last time
feel so strange suddenly,...haha
had porridge which is not so nice
which we think we can even cook better than this
hmm,...but wondering how could other people so enjoy
anyway we just left once we are done
and Rebecca went for her facial
and i got back home and wait for the standby call up
woohoo...best call up flight ever
KL turn.....chop chop finish and over it....
God bless....
mention God bless and i keep on sneeze the whole day
since i step into the train
am i sensitive to the lady sitting next to me or what??
ish,...irritating....sneeze til now...
hope im not sick *.*