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Friday, February 26, 2010

突然而来的感性。。。

如果你需要面临一个抉择
爱你的人和你爱的人
你会选择哪一个啊??
很多时候,很多人会选择后者
原因很简单啊!!
就只因为以为这样自己会快乐一些
事实真的是这样吗??
那这就因人而异了
不是每个人都会那么幸运
能够遇到一个你爱的人虽然没有很爱你却会愿意为你真心付出哦!!
在爱情的世界里,根本就没有对或错
只是不同的人拥有不一样的想法,不一样的方式,。。。
甚至是不一样的沟通,不一样的忍让,不一样的种种。。。
让不一样的人在不一样的相处方式之下得到不一样的结果
身为单身的我其实在不一样类型的朋友身上真的看到了不少
这算是获益良多吧!!
虽然曾经拥有失败恋情的我
其实更让我懂得其实一段能够维持长久的恋情真的不容易
一段感情不是一个人的
怎么说一只手又怎能拍得出声音来呢??
我学会了一段感情,无论双方有多么的耐心,再怎么迁就。。。
要是缺乏了沟通是行不通的吧??
如果有问题,是要解决的,不是吗??
有的时候,也许觉得问题不大而省略掉了
当问题慢慢累计成一个大问题的时候也就已经太迟了。。。
要是一段感情真的出现了什么问题
那是两个人的
并不可以说是谁的错
因为感情是靠两个人才可以经营的
囡生要的是被保护,被关心,被重视,。。。
偏偏男人要的是自由与信任。。。
前者与后者从被制造的那一天起就是不一样的
要两者很融洽的相处是有一定的难度的
所以说拥有那一颗为对方付出的真心是有一定的考验的
当中也包含了很多不一样的因素
就像耐心,尊重,信任,。。什么的当然也有它们一定的重要性可言了
要是承诺了什么就一定要做到
要是做不到就不要随意许下承诺
因为那也许会造成什么不愉快甚至无法回头的后果
可想而知“承诺”在一段感情里扮演着多么重要的角色啊。。。

其实啊!!我根本就没什么资格给什么意见
因为我根本没有在谈什么恋爱
也没多少次的恋爱经验
可是那么一段深刻的还是有吧!!
其实朋友认识几个,杂志翻一番,性格开放一点,
只要你愿意与他人分享一点自己的故事
自然而然就可以见识到很多他人的爱情故事哦!!
不用说别人了,我身边桃花运好得不得了的朋友几个就足够了
光是听他们的,已经得花上很多时间了。。。
可悲的是自己都还没来得及烦自己的感情
就都得花上所有的时间听故事给意见咯!!
22岁了,一朵花,一根草都没收过
更何况是什么浪漫的情人节了。。。
我看我还是把时间,心思花在事业上吧!!
是时候为自己一个人的未来做准备咯
要不然自己吃苦就算了,还得要我的父母吃苦,操心那就不好了。。
单身的朋友们,不需要愁。。。
单身没什么不好的不是吗??
虽然偶尔会感到寂寞,自己吃饭,自己看戏,自己逛街。。。
但我们不是省略了很多麻烦吗??
什么无法沟通,不信任什么的。。。哈哈!!
乐观一点吧!!是你的,它自然会出现的。。。
有那么多时间愁,还不如好好花时间努力
做一个更与众不同的人。。。不一定到时候电话会响不停哦。。。
要不然我们一起加油好了。。。
如果在谈恋爱的朋友们,当然希望你们长长久久的
有烦恼可以跟我分享哦!!
虽然我没什么经验,但我相信旁观者清吧!!
也许帮得上什么忙也不一定哦!!
一个得不到爱,却会爱你的我
by~yvonne

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

the only photos i have for CNY.....

all these photos been taken on the day i leave home
friends visit and finally get a yum cha section with cousins




ini lin lin punya skill memang cannot make it le........



this year only left the three of us
really sad,...
lin lin gonna leave to kl for her study soon
so i will be alone when im back to ipoh next time
OMG!!.....my hometown not like a home anymore
really wish to have a big family gather soon
miss you all so much
kimo, xiao wen & mei sum
you guys have to plan when to come back together ya!!

Sunday, February 21, 2010

ur CNY, ur v'day,.....my boring days

13th - ur reunion dinner,.....im in the hotel watching series having bread as my lunch

14th - ur first day CNY, family gathering,......ur V'day with love ones................. im working on board for 13 hour........no family no love ones.............. back in SIN unpack my luggage and repack my luggage........... another 8 hour bus ride back to Ipoh...........

15th - ur family gathering, friends gathering,.......i had lunch watch TV,........... 5pm and its time to watch movie in the cinema, 8pm sister comes home with bro-in-law and had dinner together (my only family gathering), 10pm receive a msg saying date delayed......keep waiting....lose money while gamble, 11.30pm its too late to drive out alone.........stay home skype chat with sister & cousins

16th - 12.30am can't stand anymore,....call and see what friends doing, 2.30am receive last call saying go MCD but will leave in 1 hour time,......i gave up went to sleep...........morning woke up watch boring shows on TV,......waiting to go out for lunch, 12.30pm driving in stupid jam just for a lunch,....stupidly hot weather and crowds, 2.30pm reach home and friends visiting,......had snacks again and chit chatting........., 6pm all guest left,....went coffee bean had a drink with cousins.........., 3 pity kitty take pictures and complaining how bored its this CNY,.....coz nobody around, 7pm went home pack my stuff,....shower and get ready............, 8.15pm double checking everything and leave home to the bus station........, waiting for the bus and another 8 hour ride back to SIN

17th - everyone still enjoying their holidays,......meeting friends and all..............,reach SIN early morning,....stupid bus stop at different location,.....spend 30mins waiting for taxi,.........reach home unpack and pack again.........checking flight details and its my time to sleep,........a proper rest before going for flight

that's how i celebrate my CNY and V'day...........a full and busy schedule huh??.................the worst thing is,....im losing money,...paying double the price to go home,....not enough rest for at least a week,.....no ang pao,......did nothing but tired...................

Friday, February 12, 2010

7th FEB 10


a new Thai restaurant in Somerset 313
which i think is a nice deco resaturant which doesn't look like Thai restaurant




a very standard dish - sambal Kangkung
which might not too spicy for those who cant eat spicy food
and the kangkung is very fresh
very crispy to munch even without having rice

and this is Pineapple Fried Rice
with my favourite cashew nuts as side plating...hehe

a must to order when having Thai food
Seafood Tom Yum - yum yum.....
my favourite dish among three of them
did some shopping after having dinner at Flying Chilies
although there are only 3 dishes that we had ordered
but i guess that's more than enough for 2 person
which is me and Katherine
finally she manage to get her new clothes for CNY
and a new challenge for her
which is she ask my help to change her look
wahahhaha....sounds so expert.....
anyway it's just a sharing and discussion about fashions
because the limitation of time where the shops are going to close
we took train back to Tampines mall to yum cha
Coffee Club - a 'lau di fang' for us to high tea always
because they open 24 hours which we can chit chat till late night
since we have not sit down chit chat since Dec
really had a great time with Katherine tonight
thanks for the time spent and hope to see you soon =)

Monday, February 08, 2010

下一站,幸福

最近待在家看了几部戏

最让我印象深刻的应该就是这一部了吧

比别的偶像剧感觉好像不一样

虽然最后几集会比较啰嗦

让我感觉等不到想快点知道结局

其实我是还没看到结局
去过很多网站都没有 T_T"
可是它的故事还不错,很感动
介绍你们一首丁当的歌
是戏里的一首插曲,还可以看一下故事情节
-亲人-

Friday, February 05, 2010

12am

12am sg time = 5pm zurich time
where i couldn't take it anymore
changed into my gym wear and run to the supermarket
just to buy socks (which i forgot to bring)
i already skip gym for a day
staying in the room which is so warm
really driving me crazy
luckily found mates to had breakfast in the morning
and went to the supermarket buying drystores

was spending an hour time on the running track as usual
but the weather makes me felt more comfy than usual
i thought winter--cold will bring us laziness and tireness
who knows that i felt that is much easier and i don't really feel tire
the best is that i don't feel difficulty in breathing after exercising
hmm,....would love to do it again tomorrow morning if i can make it
just feel good after doing some exercise =)

Thursday, February 04, 2010

a heart i received

a heart chain from Rebecca
i swear that's a gorgeous gift i ever received
i really like it
appreciate by heart for the heart that you have given
i feel it......the love from a friend
although you don't mean it from the gift
but i know we do cherrish that we have meet as a friend in our life time
thanks for the gift
thanks for remembering
thank God for the friend i have met
thank you my dearest Rebecca....muakz muakz......=)


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Tuesday, February 02, 2010

standby day....

31 JAN suppose to be my standby day
guess what??
i couldn't sleep since the day before
which i keep logging in to check if they have been activated me
i don't even dare to step out from my house
just because i wanna keep myself fully charged in case i got call up
i couldn't even sleep at night until 4am
i'm tire actually but just too scare to receive call last minute
but thank God i sleep til lunch time on the day itself
for sure i still need to stay home another day
buy home my lunch and finish up the whole series in a day
finally is 10pm and i felt release
because the higher the chance they burned my standby
yeah!! i earn another day off and gonna meet Corinna the day after
i'm happy not because i didn't receive any call
instead i can maintain my roster as i can go home for CNY
yippe!! 14th FEB,.....here i come............=)

our tea time at TCC, Wisma Atria