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Thursday, December 31, 2009

im in Hong Kong....=p

watch so many Hong Kong movies, series, or what so ever
but never been to Hong Kong
yes i did smell the air when i did a turn
and im now in Hong Kong finally,....yeah!!
im so exciting
but its too bad that we touch down at night
or else for sure i will be the first person go out without rest
but even it is at night
but guess what??....
8 crews out of 15 are in the crew room now
wahahaha...most of them are happily drinking
and there is a girl here with me online-ing...hehe
due to the connection problem at home
few days never get to online
i really die-ing already...its really killing me
i couldnt even sleep well without surfing nets just for 3 days??
i just got the feeling like i haven do something
hmm,...but it is ok now
because i just feel like wanna go out and take a walk
i wish i got have anough time to look around
although not a must to go everywhere
but at least i get to shop a little??
and see see look look around??...hehe
that's gonna satisfy me a lot
is 3am now and im gonna "chiong" out at 10am later
i don't care im gonna have a long flight at night
im just too excited
wait for my photos to be uploaded ya??
be patient k,...anyway i cant wait no more.............

Thursday, December 24, 2009

first day off in KL


firstly to thanks the first person i met once i touch down in kl
which is Danielle babe
she is the one who drive all the way to pick me up from airport
and drove me to collect my new ic at Kajang
and went Time Square for the first meal of the day
had a short walk and back to Setapak
met Hui Kuan, who has been waiting for me after class
we anyhow prepare and just thought of having "tong sui" at Kepong
just realise none of us actually know how to get there
and actually someone is waiting to see me somewhere
turn here turn there and finally found the way
had a simple dinner with "tong sui"
and continue second round at Station one with another group
although i spend very little time with them
but it was a sweet talking section after all
they simply just my best friend
can tell what's my condition recently just by reading my blog
gals,...i really love ur so damn much
oh ya,...they are Ivana and Cindy
of course they came with some accompany
Ivana, Emma with their love ones
thanks for meeting up though you are not feeling well, Emma
cross over talking here and there
sounds like a busy talking section
i guess it is....because the guys left us to play games
so we all girls talk over there
sure gonna be a little messy huh??...lol
but i had fun doing that
thanks girls driving down to kl for a short meeting up

Saturday, December 19, 2009

自己坦白。。。

虽然人是要往前看,往前走的
但如果回头可以让你快乐
请问你愿意回头吗??
很多时候我们选择逃避
有的时候我们选择隐瞒
但一旦你愿意对自己坦白的时候
你只会比原本来的更痛苦,更无法接受吧!!
往往你选择隐瞒
但这并不代表第三者看不见事实
往往事实也是残酷的
无论你多不想接受,不想承认
自己还是最清楚的
我看清了,也认清了一切
却已不知什么是对是错是好是坏
以为自己已无所谓却只是谎言
只怪一切来得太迟却走得太快
好让我看不清什么是事实
还是一切只是借口让自己逃避
也因为时间过得太快
解决也已经太迟了
也许解决只会让一切变得更复杂
甚至可以让我们努力维持的一切失去平衡点
或许该保持现在拥有的吧
也许哪一天它会默默消失
或是该爆发的时候再说吧!!

Friday, December 11, 2009

useful tips for life...

Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old

She is published in The Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio

"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most-requested column I've ever written. My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:"

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone..
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15.. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
25. Frame every so-called disaster with these words ''In five years, will this matter?".
26. Always choose life.
27. Forgive everyone everything.
28. What other people think of you is none of your business.
29. Time heals almost everything. Give time, time.
30. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
31. Don't take yourself so seriously.. No one else does.
32. Believe in miracles.
33. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
34. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
35. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
36. Your children get only one childhood.
37. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
38. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
39. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.
40. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
41. The best is yet to come.
42. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
43. Yield.
44. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.

Thursday, December 10, 2009

Sydney trip with international collegues.....

first time flying with crew who are mostly around my batch
there are 8 non-ranking crew
which the 7 of us are actually foreigner....haha
and we decided to hang out once we touch down in Sydney
we take a 5 minutes walk to Darling Harbour
taken our lunch and take the ferry to the Opera House

there are a lot of interesting activities helding around
we just couldn't resist ourselves to join in the fun
Nia was having fun playing with the Gong
and they were playing with the hula hoop
until some guys came over to tell them that is actually for kids,....haha
Varian voice out to say that he is hungry
so we all went for a quite bite in the mall
is time for us to leave for Opera House
check out the scheduled departure time
waiting for the ferry and taking pictures on the boat
we have been using airlines terms in most of our conversations...lol


here we are....the Opera House
there is very crowded and there is someone palying live band downstairs
still we sing and have fun with the music....haha


photo provided by Varian

and he said that we must have touch it since we are here
snap a shot of it.....memory.........hehe

finally a group photo
2 girls from Indonesia
2 girls from Ipoh, Malaysia
and a guy from Singapore...hehe
erm,...and we actually got a man who do not know how to take picture
so it was a unfortunate one
tour ended and is time to go back
Varian guide us the way of walking back to the hotel
and we bought ourselves ice cream before we depart =p
it was a fun trip with you guys
thanks Varian for the guidance on the street and those photo taking
keep in touch girls.....=)

Monday, December 07, 2009

Power Of Money

By Adam Khoo ( Singapore 's youngest millionaire at 26 yrs.)

Some of you may already know that I travel around the region pretty frequently, having to visit and conduct seminars at my offices in Malaysia , Indonesia , Thailand and Suzhou ( China ). I am in the airport almost every other week so I get to bump into many people who have attended my seminars or have read my books.

Recently, someone came up to me on a plane to KL and looked rather shocked. He asked, 'How come a millionaire like you is travelling economy?' My reply was, 'That's why I am a millionaire. ' He still looked pretty confused.

This again confirms that greatest lie ever told about wealth (which I wrote about in my latest book 'Secrets of Self Made Millionaires'). Many people have been brainwashed to think that millionaires have to wear Gucci, Hugo Boss, Rolex, and sit on first class in air travel. This is why so many people never become rich because the moment that earn more money, they think that it is only natural that they spend more, putting them back to square one.

The truth is that most self made millionaires are frugal and only spend on what is necessary and of value. That is why they are able to accumulate and multiply their wealth so much faster. Over the last 7 years, I have saved about 80% of my income while today I save only about 60% (because I have my wife, mother in law, 2 maids, 2 kids, etc. to support). Still, it is way above most people who save 10% of their income (if they are lucky).

I refuse to buy a first class ticket or to buy a $300 shirt because I think that it is a complete waste of money. However, I happily pay $1,300 to send my 2 year old daughter to Julia Gabriel Speech and D ram a without thinking twice.

When I joined the YEO (Young Entrepreneur's Orgn)a few years back (YEO) is an exclusive club open to those who are under 40 and make over $1m a year in their own business) I discovered that those who were self made thought like me. Many of them with net worth well over $5m,travelled economy class and some even drove Toyota 's and Nissans,not Audis, Mercs, BMWs..

I noticed that it was only those who never had to work hard to build their own wealth (there were also a few ministers' and tycoons' sons in the club) who spent like there was no tomorrow. Somehow, when you did not have to build everything from scratch, you do not really value money. This is precisely the reason why a family's wealth (no matter how much) rarely lasts past the third generation.

Thank God my rich dad foresaw this terrible possibility and refused to give me a cent to start my business.

Then some people ask me, 'What is the point in making so much money if you don't enjoy it?' The thing is that I don't really find happiness in buying branded clothes, jewellery or sitting first class. Even if buying something makes me happy it is only for a while, it does not last. Material happiness never lasts, it just give you a quick fix. After a while you feel lousy again and have to buy the next thing which you think will make you happy. I always think that if you need material things to make you happy, then you live a pretty sad and unfulfilled life..
Instead, what makes me happy is when I see my children laughing and playing and learning so fast. What makes me happy is when I see my companies and trainers reaching more and more people every year in so many more countries.

What makes me really happy is when I read all the emails about how my books and seminars have touched and inspired some one's life.

What makes me really happy is reading all your wonderful posts about how this blog is inspiring you. This happiness makes me feel really good for a long time, much much more than what a Rolex would do for me.

I think the point I want to put across is that happiness must come from doing your life's work (be it teaching, building homes, designing,trading, winning tournaments etc.) and the money that comes is only a by-product. If you hate what you are doing and rely on the money you earn to make you happy by buying stuff, then I think that you are living a life of meaninglessness.

Friday, December 04, 2009

i'm missing..........

just to update you guys,....
my sore throat is not recover yet
were chatting with one of my bff
she makes me think of the past

i miss my mum who buy me coconut drink for sore throat
i miss my coursemate who use to force me taking medicine
i miss them who scold me when i steal french fries to eat
i miss my mum who switch off my fan when i complain cold
i miss people who force me to eat when i am on diet
i miss eating mamak at the middle of the night
i miss the moment we wait until 3am just for McD breakfast
i miss running up and down at the middle of the night
i miss the moment we sit at the park to share secrets
i miss cooking dinner for friends
i miss the moment we laugh until we couldn't stop
i miss the time we hang out after class no matter how far the place is
i miss exam time when we do discussion the day before test
i miss swimming together at the pool downstairs
i miss the time we shout at each other at the balcony
i miss the time we wait for one another at the lift before class
i miss travelling with friends no matter how sucks is the place
i miss sharing meal at the end of every month
i miss the small and pack lrt or buses when we use to hang out
i miss the karaoke room where we shout and dance stupidly
i miss we gather everyone just to watch one movie
i miss the moment we gather at someone house to watch DVD
i miss we play music and sing loudly together until we get complain
i miss all of us to squeeze in one car where we couldn't even breath
i miss having meal in a big group where we need to shout when we talk
i miss staying overnight at friend's house and go home only before class
i miss the stupid bday surprise which is always same from JAN to DEC
i miss when we sit down in the canteen and gossip about other people
i miss leaving home for class at 8am and be back at 3am after hang out
i miss few cars to stop by the road just to discuss where to go next
i miss we walk from one block to another to send everyone home


there are too many stupid and crazy stuffs that we had done
not only that i miss student's life
also the moment that we had spent together
no matter is just 2 person or the 20 of us
we just like to make noise everywhere we go
guys,....i really miss you all very very much
everything that i do here, i did it all alone
no longer with the big groups
no longer with the laughters
no longer with the noise
even travelling with a big group of people
but it is different no matter how great the place is
sometimes i just feel like i am alone still
time flies,....it is too fast for me
there are too many things that we couldn't hold on to
what we can do is just look forward and keep going
where are you guys now??
i couldn't feel anyone of you anymore
the distance is not too far yet it is not close anymore
i really miss all those moments we had
i really wish to have a pause once in a while
just to let me feels that you guys are still with me........