circles in our heart

there are a lot of people have the same experience as us in life

we can call them a friend when we have similar topics

the longer time we spend

the more experiences we share

we can call them a better friend

but we don't call everybody a best buddy in life

i ever encouter there are people who call everyone best buddy

and actually told me im the most important friend

so what exactly is it??

if we met so many peoples everyday

and you tell everyone they understand you most

so who is the exact important person to you

and how is it when someone you believe in betray you someday

you might choose to forgive them

but do you actually still believe in them??

we should learn to differentiate different groups of people in our life

i believe we all have our own circles in our heart

which meant for different people

who are a friend, family, even enermy to us

i have learn this from a friend

which we should not call everyone your best friend

although you think you are very close to them

because of too many similar topics, experiences

or maybe similar thinking

people who receive it will really expect something from you

because they will believe this statement when you tell them

what if when they realise you actually calling everyone a best friend??

and saying someone else simply understand you

someone simply read your thoughts and stuff

it hurts,.....it really do

don't ever believe someone's promises

people do change

you will never know what exactly is it in a person's mind

there are people that we can trust

we choose them to be

but not because of what they have told you

not because of they told you how important you are

they can choose you to be a person they believe in

but it doesn't mean you have to give them the same treatment

because we judge them by ourselves

whether to fit them into which circle in our heart

believe someone might cause yourself to get hurt in the end

think twice when you judge a person

if you think you are changing by age

they are the same like us

learn the way to protect yourself

stay strong with your thoughts

stay strong with your own statements

the best person we can believe in is our own

if you choose not to protect yourself no one will do