人生 生活 简单

人生没有如果  只有后果和结果

过去的不再回来  回来的不再完美

生活有进退  输什么也不能输心情

生活最大的幸福就是  坚信有人爱着我

对于过去  不可忘记  但要放下

因为有明天  今天永远只是起跑点

生活简单就迷人  人心简单就幸福

学会简单其实不简单！

know something about woman~

FOR MY FEMALE FRIENDS AND FOR THE MEN TO KNOW SOMETHING ABOUT WOMEN.

A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?" 

"Because I'm a woman," she told him.

"I don't understand," he said. 

His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will." 

"All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say. 

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry. 

Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?" 

God said: "When I made the woman she had to be special. I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort. I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children. I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining. I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly. I gave her strength to carry her man through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart. I gave her wisdom to know that a good man never hurts his woman, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly. And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed." 

"You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. 

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides." 

Please read this and inform the beautiful women you know today. You will boost another woman's self-esteem!.. I know many beautiful woman, & this message is for you!

做这样的女生

你可以不美丽，可以不可爱，可以不温柔，

但是，请你一定要诚实和善良。

诚恳，坦然，慷慨，宽容，

用平常心爱家人，爱朋友，

爱伴侣，爱孩子，

然而，要真正为自己活。

不要对我说

身边的人那么多，懂自己的有几个。

不要对我说，我是个好人，我很可爱，我很活泼。

我只是个，会自卑，会伤心，会小心眼的普通人。

其实，我很好，只是不习惯，

只是会偶尔难受一下，

只是会在某一瞬间突然很想某个人，

只是会在听到某一句熟悉的话时很难过…

不要高估自己 不要小看他

他曾经很爱很爱你  不代表他永远这么爱你

他曾经很需要你  不代表他没有你就不行

感情中上风的位置是他给的   

有一天他不再那么爱你  你就成了下风

他不会发短信告诉你

要记得他不是永远都会伏在你脚下的

所以

“永远不要高估自己  永远不要小看他”

台风

昨天刚离开日本

班机延迟了  因为台风要来了

可恶的是有的班机顾虑安全而取消了

我们尽然还在前往机场的路上

这种事也不是第一次了

当海啸地震的时侯

我们前往日本的班机依然持续着

或许对某个国家来说

台风还蛮常发生的

可我却是第一次亲身经历

中午出去吃午餐时就在下雨了

电视都在报导着日本各地因台风来临的情况

有的地区都已发生水灾了

水都盖到现场记者的膝盖了

虽然听不懂日文也大概猜到当时的情形似乎很严重

我们还以为因此而取消班机

大概三点左右在回酒店的路上已开始天黑了

从店里看出去还以为是晚上了

雨下得更大了  也在跨大风

提着雨伞都没有用了

甚至看到一些路人都干脆不提了

能湿的大概都湿了吧

最令我难忘的大概就是我们从酒店出发时

在路上看到的路人吧

跑的跑  躲的躲

很多店都因为坏天气而打烊了

还看到很多上班族在赶回家的路上

还有人站在雨中等巴士

最心疼的大概就是那些还在路上维持交通的人们

他们的家人大概也很担心他们吧

当时真的很庆幸我的国家是安全的

看着那摆动得使劲的树儿还蛮可怕的

感觉随时就会倒下似的

心里一直想着希望可以安全抵达机场

然后安全的起飞接着抵达目的地

终于天气好转了

虽然班机延迟了差不多三小时

不过很庆幸我们还赶得及在机场关之前安全出发了

田馥甄 - 你

a song from Hebe to Selina

the beautiful side of friendship

田馥甄 - 你

作词：吴青峰

作曲：吴青峰

黑夜 你独自面对多少的梦魇 我不了解

但我知道 蓝天终究会出现 暴雨的终点是一片草原

看着你 偶尔清醒偶尔睡 偶尔沮丧掉下泪

你的痛我永远无法体会 但我明白我的心和你同一边

那些巨大的狂烈 摇晃你世界 一夕之间

让我看见 一切都不曾改变 你笑开的脸像一朵玫瑰

等着你偶尔放晴 偶尔灰 偶尔想逃回从前

你的痛我不能代替一点 但我多想时间能走得快一些

心越漆黑 梦越灿烂纷飞

陪着你 偶尔信心偶尔累 偶尔坚强到心碎

最寂寞是痛找不到语言 但我希望我的歌到你心里面

太阳出现 晒你那所有的美

田馥甄 - My Love

another song lyric that i love

田馥甄 - My Love

作词：施人诚

作曲：郑楠

编曲：Martin tang

制作人：郭文宗

如果你被她伤的很痛　请感谢她好心折磨

如果你对她感到愧疚　请感谢她慷慨泪流

在我们相遇相爱之前　多亏有她让你成熟

如果你现在孤独寂寞　请感谢这美丽等候

如果你还在为爱犯错　请感谢还没找到我

要走完每个曲折路口　我们才懂爱是什么

Wu~Wu~Wu~My Love　Wu~Wu~Wu~My Love

如果庆幸我值得拥有　请感谢我被放弃过

如果欣赏我坚强温柔　请感谢那珍贵伤口

在我们相遇相爱之后　遗憾都会变成收获

Wu~Wu~Wu~My Love　Wu~Wu~Wu~My Love

当我们终于紧紧相拥　所有苦难会甜美结果

我们就耐心漂流　爱会来的　在对的时候

Wu~Wu~Wu~My Love　Wu~Wu~Wu~My Love

Wu~Wu~Wu~My Love　Wu~Wu~Wu~My Love

tired??

when this guy ask:" How's flying so far? Feeling bored or tired? "

i answered:" Im tired because im alone in Sg where my family n friends are all away. There's where i felt how important these people are for me. "

hope it will never be too late for me to know that

i miss home and friends more often than before

so reluctant to back in Sg nowadays

im really...seriously....freaking tired.... >.<

where is my Mr.right??

i wanna quit working!! LOL

hearts left at home

*couple with jimui*

**VVIPs**

when i could recall

i have been busy doing flight change since Aug

yet too quickly everything is over

the wedding is over

everybody has back track to their own busy day

very soon i will be back track to my busy day too

how time flies

it's getting faster n faster

which i think is too quickly

which i can't see what has been going on

everybody was busy preparing for the wedding

we were discussing about the dress code

we were thinking what to do with the tea ceremony

yet it ended just with a twinkle of an eye

we were happy for sure

happy for the couple

happier to gather together on the big day

how often we get to be back home together the same time

only on the big day i guess

**FULL MOON**

n today is the mid-autumn

where we use to be together every year

celebrating at grandma house since we were young

til then when we have grown up

we split to study n to work

on the last night in Ipoh

we decide to have a little celebration

bought some candles to lighten up our hopes

it may sound sad to have only 5 of us this year

but our heart were linked to the memories we had

like our heart linked doesn't matter how far the distance is

home that we miss

family that we love

as we will looking forward to the next meet up

hopefully a big gathering next

miss u all deep in heart <3

角色更换吧！

总是在问

“要什么时候才懂得更爱自己”

“要什么时候才懂得更宠自己”

其实原来自己很爱自己

自爱得过分

总是想自己要的是什么

总是要求别人可以更懂自己一些

这不是很自私吗

或许我该放下自我去倾听别人了

下一个问题应该是

“该如何去倾听和懂得别人”了

是时候更换角色了

busy but what?!?

found myself been busy for pass few months

busy going home

busy for family day

busy on holiday

busy in arranging my schedule

in fact im busy over nothing

im busy because i need to fill up my time

i would like to have free time

but to have it over something

instead of staying home doing nothing

i love spending my time with friends

i don't mind if i would be tire

i just can't stay home all alone

what in September??

change flight to go home for cousin's big day

doing Dubai right after London is no joke

im freaking tire

freaking headache specially when the flight isn't smooth

one after another is not funny at all

working everyday from 5th to 9th

flying as a job is not fun

if im not wrong

my next free day would be on the 22nd

how far it could be

but i believe i could reach there very soon

n have that over even faster

looking tru my schedule

is another pack and busy month to go

but i kinda love being busy

to shown that i am not alone

there i realise i have been afraid of being lonely all this while

in fact is sad being busy over nothing